I’m thrilled to introduce a new and exclusive online coaching program for a small number of my clients.

It’s called the NEW Daring Ventures’ Partners Basecamp Coaching program. The BEST part is that it’s ALL online. I believe this hybrid approach to helping people through online coaching, interactive groups and downloadable tools will allow you to receive the help you need when you need it.

You can consume the content on your schedule and you can conveniently connect with a small support group (we call these “Campfire Groups”) and me without leaving your home.

This program rolls out officially in the fall, but first we’re allowing a LIMITED number of small groups to go through the beta program. It’s a 12-week program with 8 modules that include the following:

Session 1: You’re Not Crazy
Reestablishing Your Reality

After this lesson, you'll will be able to:

* Compare your symptoms post-discovery to those of other partners of sex addicts;
* Understand and recognize the signs of gas lighting; and
* Identify resources to establish healthy support for recovery.

Downloadable Tool: Checklist for Recognizing Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma

Session 2: You Can Be Empowered
Some Immediate Tools for Self-Care

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Utilize journaling as a way to process your reality;
* Understand the importance of grounding skills to reduce trauma symptoms; and
* Practice a number of affect regulation techniques to stay grounded.

Downloadable Tools: Journaling that Actually Helps and Affect Regulation Cheat Sheet

Session 3: You’re Not the Cause
The Reality of Sex Addiction

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Evaluate the arguments for and against the reality of sexual addiction;
* Recognize the signs of sex and porn addiction; and
* Understand how sex addiction is never the responsibility of the partner.

Downloadable Tool: Overcoming Self-Blame Worksheet

Session 4: You Need Some Basics
Part 1 – Sex and Porn Addiction 101

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Understand the typical dynamics at play in the creation of sexual addiction;
* Summarize the basic sub-categories of sexual addiction; and
* Recognize the basics of the sexual addiction cycle.

Downloadable Tool: Sex and Porn Addiction 101 Infographic

Session 5: You Need Some Basics
Part 2 – Trauma and Recovery 101

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Understand how trauma affects the brain;
* Recognize symptoms of trauma experienced by sex addicts and their partners; and
* Practice basic skills designed to reduce the effects of trauma.

Downloadable Tool: Healing Trauma Cheat Sheet

Session 6: You’re Not Stuck Forever
The Process of Recovery and Healing

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Compare the stages of recovery for the addict, the partner, and the couple;
* Understand the couples-centered approach to recovery; and
* Implement a roadmap to recovery.

Downloadable Tool: Roadmap to Recovery (Individual and Couples versions)

Session 7: You Deserve the Truth
The Disclosure Process

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Understand the purpose and process of formal clinical disclosure;
* Evaluate the use of and need for a polygraph in the disclosure process;
* Generate a timeline to prepare for and go through the disclosure process.

Downloadable Tool: Preparing for Disclosure Worksheet

Session 8: You Have a Voice
Setting Boundaries and Establishing Self-Care

After this lesson, you will be able to:

* Understand the purpose and necessity of boundaries and self-care;
* Create and implement a list of boundaries;
* Produce a three circle self-care plan.

Downloadable Tool: The Three Circle Self-Care Plan

12 Twelve 90-Minute Online Sessions
with a Coach and Your Campfire Group

In addition, you will be placed in a 6-person online support group to participate in ONE 90-minute session with your coach EACH WEEK. Your Campfire group is an online Google Hangout with 5 other partners who can be a sounding board and a source of encouragement and support. That’s 1080 minutes of sessions with your coach to discuss the online coaching videos and downloadable tools to apply them to your specific situation.

Two Personal Assessments PLUS a 30-Minute Consult
with Relational Recovery Coach Jake Porter

As you enter the screening process for group participation, you will be asked to complete two online assessments. These will be a valuable resource to you whether you continue in our program or not. The first is called the IPAST, the Inventory for Partner Attachment, Stress, and Trauma. This extensive assessment is designed to look a range ways in which your spouse or partner’s sexual addiction or betrayal has affected you. The second assessment is the PTSI-R, the Posttraumatic Stress Index–Revised. This considers the ways in which you may be suffering from posttraumatic stress.

Upon completion of these assessments you will have an opportunity to have a thirty minute one–on–one session with Relational Recovery Coach Jake Porter, who will help you to understand your results. Normally the cost for these assessments and the consultation with Jake would cost $330. Those signing up for this program receive these assessments and the consultation at no additional cost!

Here's Everything You Receive
Over 12-Weeks for $850

• 2 Personal Assessments with a 30-Minute Consultation
• 8 Partner Coaching Videos
• 12 90-minute Group Sessions with your Coach and 5 other Partners
• 9 Downloadable Tools
• 12 Weeks of Direct Access to your Coach and Group through Google Hangout